Here’s to having put your heart out there and feeling like a doughnut because it wasn’t reciprocal, here’s to not reading a situation and making someone else feel like a doughnut when they had put their heart out there. Here’s to finding the man whom I wanted to finally buy this doughnut for and him not fancying it so I got to eat it. Here’s to Valentine’s Day whether you love it or loathe it, Eat the doughnut. Happy Valentines Day whom ever you love xx
I read an article in December in The Times newspaper that said gardeners have been noticing that the Tea bag was no longer disintegrating into the earth, after popping used Tea bags in the compost bin and then using that in their gardens. Small pieces of the T-bag was turning up in the soil when turning the earth. I was surprised to hear that and a little upset as my morning routine consists of making a nice cuppa before getting started on the day.
It turned out that Tea bags have up to 25% plastic in them. Our humble tea bag has been sealed with a plastic glue and therefore was not fully biodegradable. The article also mentioned that Mike Armitage of Nature Matters has launched a petition to get the main manufacturers to remove the plastic – you can sign it here.
In the past few days The Guardian has reported that the Co-op have taken notice and are now developing a 100% biodegradable Tea-bag (read article here) which is great to hear and I really do hope that the others manufacturers follow suit. So that we have a choice of tea bags to choose from.
Moral Fibres blog post about plastic in our tea-bags is an excellent resource to find out if your favourite brew includes plastic and some great suggestions of getting rid of the bag all together and going back to leaves and a strainer.
Please sign the petition and also you can email the major companies to request the removal, all contacts provided in Moral Fibres post.
Lets help our hug in a mug be truly that again.
After my serious allergy to hair dye (thanks to the black henna tattoo) my doctor and I agreed it would be best that I never coloured my hair again.
Now that said, it is fine to agree to no hair dye in your 20’s, but as you head further into your 40’s the grey hairs start to come thick and fast (well for me). So you start thinking about your options or try to come to terms with your grey hair.
I have read a lot of articles about how other women feel about having grey hair and here they are some of the wonderful articles and blog posts on the subject.
Women In Consulting
Anne Kreamer – Going Gray
Boom By Cindy Joseph – 5 tips for embracing natural hair
The Guardian – Why women dare not go grey, The politics of hair
The Telegraph – I’ve had grey hair since I was 16
The Change Guru – Lessons from a year of growing gray hair
Make Up and Beauty Blog – Graceful way to gray
Andrea Bonawitz Styling – Aging Gracefully how to go grey
Just about to start reading Anne Kreamer’s book – Going Gray, will let you know my thoughts.
I feel like today is a good day to post this seeing as it is my 42nd birthday, so here goes.
I have read so many articles about what we should have accomplished or have or need to have sorted by our 20’s, 30’s and 40’s that I decided to put together my own list. I then thought who am I to say what you should have achieved when I am reading articles about what you should have achieved! It then came to me I know a bunch of 40 somethings, lets see what they think you should have nailed by the time you are in the big 4 – 0.
So here it is, I asked the question on Facebook to a bunch of 40 somethings and this is what they said you should have nailed by the time you are 40 and still growing….
1. Know what you are good at and love and going for it – Van Crol
2. Learn to live without out jealousy and make peace with your body- William Preen
3. Foundation Colour – Katy Heale
4. Patience and Empathy – David Smith Segarra – I am still learning this one.
5. That to be remembered and recognised is more useful than sinking into the background (yes blue hair helps). – Jessica Evershed, who has blue hair.
6. How to apply eyeliner, nail varnish – Also Jessica Evershed
7. Confidence….loving yourself….having true friendships….how you like your coffee!! – Chantal Hinkson
8. How and when to say no – Alistair Beadle
9. To wear the clothes you’re saving for ‘best’ before they either go out of fashion or you don’t fit in them anymore – Jess Evershed – she is full of good advice.
10. Letting go of people / things that don’t make you happy. Being brave enough to say ‘this is me and I don’t need you to like me-‘ just being happy and grateful for all that you have. – Diana MacGregor
11. Not giving a shit ie not sweating the small stuff – Sarah Edwards
12. Cooking eggs. Being kind to yourself. Quality over quantity (alcohol, chocolate, cheese, clothes). Fixing stuff with whatever is at hand. Knowing when good enough is good enough. -Rebecca Woodfine
13. When to stop drinking Peroni (I am going to add in Wine, Vodka, Snowballs etc…) – Ben Wright
14. Cling Film – Alan Edwards
15. Being proud to voice your achievements – Laura Johnson
16. Should have nailed accessorising. I haven’t. – Kerry Rowland
17. 1/2 marathons under 2hrs – Lisa Hughes
18. Been sacked or made redundant from a job and bounced back with positivity…- Daragh McDonogh
19. Botox – Stephanie Reade
20. Learn to always have some white wine in fridge, red at hand for emergencies. And a bottle of Champagne for special surprises. – William Preen
21.How to save for a rainy day, travel the world… or at least achieve your own travelling goals (before the Children arrive), volunteer, learn a new skill, definitely have children (if that’s what you want) because by the time you get to 40 they’ll be taking advantage of your old age …. – Helen Worgan
22. How to get over a hangover with Kids – Claire Redden
23. How to make a good G&T – Katy Heale
24. You should have something very expensive, that you have bought yourself, not out of impulse, but because you actually deserved it. – Caroline Cotter
25. Making it to the 50’s – Darren Trip
26. A great group of friends – Me – Sam Bruce.
I definitely haven’t nailed all of these so I think I am going to re-visit this post in 2018 and see what I can do about it. I think 2018 is going to make for a fun year don’t you?
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